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Truth Over Tradition

Marriage rules and advice

 
1
περι
about
δε
yet
ὡν
[of]-whom
εγραψατε
yous-wrote
καλον
best
ανθρωπω
[to]-person
γυναικος
[of]-woman
μη
not
ἁπτεσθαι
to-touch
2
δια
through
δε
yet
τας
those
πορνειας
[of]-harlotries
ἑκαστος
each
την
the
ἑαυτου
[of]-self
γυναικα
woman
εχετω
let-him-have!
και
and
ἑκαστη
each-woman
τον
the
ιδιον
own
ανδρα
man
εχετω
let-her-have!
3
τη
[to]-the
γυναικι
[to]-woman
ὁ
the
ανηρ
man
την
the
οφειλην
due
αποδιδοτω
let-him-repay!
ὁμοιως
similarly
δε
yet
και
and
ἡ
the
γυνη
woman
τω
[to]-the
ανδρι
[to]-man
4
ἡ
the
γυνη
woman
του
[of]-the
ιδιου
[of]-own
σωματος
[of]-body
ουκ
not
εξουσιαζει
has-authority
αλλα
but
ὁ
the
ανηρ
man
ὁμοιως
similarly
δε
yet
και
and
ὁ
the
ανηρ
man
του
[of]-the
ιδιου
[of]-own
σωματος
[of]-body
ουκ
not
εξουσιαζει
has-authority
αλλα
but
ἡ
the
γυνη
woman
5
μη
not
αποστερειτε
yous-are-depriving
αλληλους
each-other
ει
if
μητι
not
αν
ever
εκ
out
συμφωνου
[of]-agreed
προς
toward
καιρον
time
ἱνα
that
σχολαζητε
yous-may-vacate
τη
[to]-the
προσευχη
prayer
και
and
παλιν
again
επι
on
το
the
αυτο
it
ητε
yous-were
ἱνα
that
μη
not
πειραζη
may-test
ὑμας
yous
ὁ
the
Σατανας
Adversary
δια
through
την
the
ακρΑσιαν
lack-of-self-control
ὑμων
[of]-yous
6
τουτο
this
δε
yet
λεγω
I-am-saying
κατα
according-to
συγγνωμην
concession
ου
not
κατ᾽
down
επιταγην
divine-command
7
θελω
I-am-choosing
δε
yet
παντας
all
ανθρωπους
people
ειναι
to-be
ὡς
as
και
and
εμαυτον
I-myself
αλλα
but
ἑκαστος
each
ιδιον
own
εχει
has
χαρισμα
gift
εκ
out
θεου
[of]-God
ὁ
the
μεν
in-fact
οὑτως
likewise
ὁ
the
δε
yet
οὑτως
likewise
 
8
λεγω
I-am-saying
δε
yet
τοις
[to]-those
αγαμοις
[to]-unmarried
και
and
ταις
[to]-the
χηραις
[to]-widows
καλον
best
αυτοις
[to]-them
εαν
if-ever
μεινωσιν
they-should-remain
ὡς
as
καγω
and-I
9
ει
if
δε
yet
ουκ
not
εγκρατευονται
they-control-themselves
γαμησατωσαν
let-them-marry!
κρειττον
better
γαρ
because
εστιν
is
γαμησαι
to-marry
η
or-else
πυρουσθαι
to-be-inflamed
 
10
τοις
[to]-those
δε
yet
γεγαμηκοσιν
having-married
παραγγελλω
I-am-directing
ουκ
not
εγω
I
αλλα
but
ὁ
the
κυριος
master
γυναικα
woman
απο
from
ανδρος
[of]-man
μη
not
χωρισθηναι
to-be-separated
11
εαν
if-ever
δε
yet
και
and
χωρισθη
may-be-separated
μενετω
let-her-remain!
αγαμος
unmarried
η
or-else
τω
[to]-the
ανδρι
[to]-man
καταλλαγητω
let-her-be-reconciled!
και
and
ανδρα
man
γυναικα
woman
μη
not
αφιεναι
to-let-alone
 
12
τοις
[to]-those
δε
yet
λοιποις
[to]-remaining
εγω
I
λεγω
I-am-saying
ουχ
not
ὁ
the
κυριος
master
ει
if
τις
who
αδελφος
sibling
γυναικα
woman
εχει
has
απιστον
untrusting
και
and
αυτη
herself
συνευδοκει
is-consenting
οικειν
to-reside
μετ᾽
with
αυτου
[of]-self
μη
not
αφιετω
let-her-release!
αυτην
herself
13
και
and
γυνη
woman
ει
if
τις
who
εχει
has
ανδρα
man
απιστον
untrusting
και
and
αυτος
himself
συνευδοκει
is-consenting
οικειν
to-reside
μετ᾽
with
αυτης
[of]-herself
μη
not
αφιετω
let-her-release!
τον
the
ανδρα
man
14
ἡγιασται
has-been-consecrated
γαρ
because
ὁ
the
ανηρ
man
ὁ
the
απιστος
untrusting
εν
in
τη
[to]-the
γυναικι
[to]-woman
και
and
ἡγιασται
has-been-consecrated
ἡ
the
γυνη
woman
ἡ
the
απιστος
untrusting
εν
in
τω
[to]-the
αδελφω
[to]-sibling
επει
since
αρα
consequently
τα
the
τεκνα
children
ὑμων
[of]-yous
ακαθαρτα
unwashed
εστιν
is
νυν
now
δε
yet
ἁγια
consecrated
εστιν
is
15
ει
if
δε
yet
ὁ
the
απιστος
untrusting
χωριζεται
is-separated
χωριζεσθω
let-be-separated!
ου
not
δεδουλωται
has-been-enslaved
ὁ
the
αδελφος
brother
η
or-else
ἡ
the
αδελφη
sister
εν
in
τοις
[to]-those
τοιουτοις
[to]-such
εν
in
δε
yet
ειρηνη
peace
κεκληκεν
has-called
ἡμας
us
ὁ
the
θεος
God
16
τι
what
γαρ
because
οιδας
you-are-seeing
γυναι
oh-woman
ει
if
τον
the
ανδρα
man
σωσεις
you-shall-save
η
or-else
τι
what
οιδας
you-are-seeing
ανερ
oh-man
ει
if
την
the
γυναικα
woman
σωσεις
you-shall-save

Dealing with life events

 
17
ει
if
μη
not
ἑκαστω
[to]-each
ὡς
as
εμερισεν
apportions
ὁ
the
κυριος
master
ἑκαστον
each
ὡς
as
κεκληκεν
has-called
ὁ
the
θεος
God
οὑτως
likewise
περιπατειτω
let-walk-around!
και
and
οὑτως
likewise
εν
in
ταις
[to]-the
εκκλησιαις
[to]-congregations
πασαις
[to]-all
διατασσομαι
I-set-in-order
18
περιτετμημενος
having-been-circumcised
τις
who
εκληθη
was-called
μη
not
επισπασθω
let-be-covered-up!
εν
in
ακροβυστια
[to]-foreskin
κεκληται
was-called
τις
who
μη
not
περιτεμνεσθω
let-be-circumcised!
19
ἡ
the
περιτομη
circumcision
ουδεν
not-even-one
εστιν
is
και
and
ἡ
the
ακροβυστια
[to]-foreskin
ουδεν
not-even-one
εστιν
is
αλλα
but
τηρησις
detention
εντολων
[of]-injunctions
θεου
[of]-God
20
ἑκαστος
each
εν
in
τη
[to]-the
κλησει
[to]-appointment
ἡ
the
εκληθη
was-called
εν
in
ταυτη
[to]-this
μενετω
let-remain!
21
δουλος
slave
εκληθης
you-were-called
μη
not
σοι
[to]-you
μελετω
let-concern!
αλλ᾽
but
ει
if
και
and
δυνασαι
you-are-able
ελευθερος
free
γενεσθαι
to-become
μαλλον
rather
χρησαι
you-use
22
ὁ
the
γαρ
because
εν
in
κυριω
master
κληθεις
being-called
δουλος
slave
απελευθερος
free-person
κυριου
[of]-master
εστιν
is
ὁμοιως
similarly
ὁ
the
ελευθερος
free
κληθεις
being-called
δουλος
slave
εστιν
is
Χριστου
[of]-Christ
23
τιμης
[of]-worth
ηγορασθητε
yous-were-bought
μη
not
γινεσθε
yous-become!
δουλοι
slaves
ανθρωπων
[of]-people
24
ἑκαστος
each
εν
in
ὡ
[to]-whom
εκληθη
was-called
αδελφοι
siblings
εν
in
τουτω
[to]-this
μενετω
let-remain!
παρα
beside
θεω
[to]-God

Singleness as the ideal Christian state

 
25
περι
about
δε
yet
των
[of]-the
παρθενων
[of]-marriageable-women
επιταγην
divine-command
κυριου
[of]-master
ουκ
not
εχω
I-have
γνωμην
opinion
δε
yet
διδωμι
I-am-giving
ὡς
as
ηλεημενος
having-received-pity
ὑπο
under
κυριου
[of]-master
πιστος
trustworthy
ειναι
to-be
26
νομιζω
I-am-supposing
ουν
then
τουτο
this
καλον
best
ὑπαρχειν
to-be
δια
through
την
the
ενεστωσαν
being-present
αναγκην
stressfulness
ὁτι
since
καλον
best
ανθρωπω
[to]-person
το
the
οὑτως
likewise
ειναι
to-be
27
δεδεσαι
you-have-been-confined
γυναικι
[to]-woman
μη
not
ζητει
you-seek!
λυσιν
loosed-person
λελυσαι
you-have-been-loosed
απο
from
γυναικος
[of]-woman
μη
not
ζητει
you-seek!
γυναικα
woman
28
εαν
if-ever
δε
yet
και
and
γαμησης
you-should-marry
ουχ
not
ἡμαρτες
you-sinned
και
and
εαν
if-ever
γημη
may-marry
ἡ
the
παρθενος
marriageable-woman
ουχ
not
ἡμαρτεν
sinned
θλιψιν
pressure
δε
yet
τη
[to]-the
σαρκι
[to]-flesh
ἑξουσιν
they-shall-have
οἱ
the
τοιουτοι
such
εγω
I
δε
yet
ὑμων
[of]-yous
φειδομαι
I-am-lenient
29
τουτο
this
δε
yet
φημι
I-affirm
αδελφοι
siblings
ὁ
the
καιρος
time
συνεσταλμενος
having-been-drawn-together
εστιν
is
το
the
λοιπον
remaining
ἱνα
that
και
and
οἱ
the
εχοντες
having
γυναικας
women
ὡς
as
μη
not
εχοντες
having
ωσιν
they-may-be
30
και
and
οἱ
the
κλαιοντες
sobbing
ὡς
as
μη
not
κλαιοντες
sobbing
και
and
οἱ
the
χαιροντες
being-happy
ὡς
as
μη
not
χαιροντες
being-happy
και
and
οἱ
the
αγοραζοντες
buying
ὡς
as
μη
not
κατεχοντες
controlling
31
και
and
οἱ
the
χρωμενοι
using
τον
the
κοσμον
arrangement
ὡς
as
μη
not
καταχρωμενοι
using
παραγει
is-changing
γαρ
because
το
the
σχημα
appearance
του
[of]-the
κοσμου
[of]-arrangement
τουτου
[of]-this
 
32
θελω
I-am-choosing
δε
yet
ὑμας
yous
αμεριμνους
not-anxious
ειναι
to-be
ὁ
the
αγαμος
unmarried
μεριμνα
is-anxious
τα
the
του
[of]-the
κυριου
[of]-master
πως
how
αρεση
should-please
τω
[to]-the
κυριω
master
33
ὁ
the
δε
yet
γαμησας
marrying
μεριμνα
is-anxious
τα
the
του
[of]-the
κοσμου
[of]-arrangement
πως
how
αρεση
should-please
τη
[to]-the
γυναικι
[to]-woman
34
και
and
μεμερισται
has-been-apportioned
και
and
ἡ
the
γυνη
woman
ἡ
the
αγαμος
unmarried
και
and
το
the
παρθενος
marriageable-woman
μεριμνα
is-anxious
τα
the
του
[of]-the
κυριου
[of]-master
ἱνα
that
η.
may-be
ἁγια
consecrated
και
and
τω
[to]-the
σωματι
[to]-body
και
and
τω
[to]-the
πνευματι
[to]-spirit
ἡ
the
δε
yet
γαμησασα
marrying
μεριμνα
is-anxious
τα
the
του
[of]-the
κοσμου
[of]-arrangement
πως
how
αρεσει
shall-please
τω
[to]-the
ανδρι
[to]-man
35
τουτο
this
δε
yet
προς
toward
το
the
ὑμων
[of]-yous
αυτων
[of]-them
συμφερον
benefitting
λεγω
I-am-saying
ουχ
not
ἱνα
that
βροχον
noose
ὑμιν
[to]-yous
επιβαλω
I-should-throw-upon
αλλα
but
προς
toward
το
the
ευσχημον
proper
και
and
ευπαρεδρον
meticulous
τω
[to]-the
κυριω
master
απερισπαστως
undistractedly
 
36
ει
if
δε
yet
τις
who
ασχημονειν
to-behave-dishonorably
επι
on
την
the
παρθενον
marriageable woman
αυτου
[of]-self
νομιζει
is-supposing
εαν
if-ever
η.
may-be
ὑπερακμος
over-the-line
και
and
οὑτως
likewise
οφειλει
is-obligated
γινεσθαι
to-come-to-be
ὁ
the
θελει
is-choosing
ποιειτω
let-make!
ουχ
not
ἁμαρτανει
is-sinning
γαμειτωσαν
let-them-marry!
37
ὁς
who
δε
yet
ἑστηκεν
has-stood
εν
in
ὁ
the
καρδια
[to]-heart
αυτου
[of]-self
ἑδραιος
settled
μη
not
εχων
having
αναγκην
stressfulness
εξουσιαν
authority
δε
yet
εχει
has
περι
about
του
[of]-the
ιδιου
[of]-own
θεληματος
[of]-desire
και
and
τουτο
this
κεκρικεν
has-judged
εν
in
τη
[to]-the
ιδια
own
καρδια
[to]-heart
τηρειν
to-guard
την
the
ἑαυτου
[of]-self
παρθενον
marriageable woman
καλως
well
ποιει
is-doing
38
ὡστε
so-too
και
and
ὁ
the
γαμιζων
giving-in-marriage
την
the
ἑαυτου
[of]-self
παρθενον
marriageable woman
καλως
well
ποιει
is-doing
και
and
ὁ
the
μη
not
γαμιζων
giving-in-marriage
κρεισσον
better
ποιησει
shall-be-doing
39
γυνη
woman
δεδεται
is-confined
εφ᾽
upon
ὁσον
as-much-as
χρονον
time
ζη
is-living
ὁ
the
ανηρ
man
αυτης
[of]-herself
εαν
if-ever
δε
yet
κοιμηθη
may-sleep
ὁ
the
ανηρ
man
αυτης
[of]-herself
ελευθερα
free
εστιν
is
ὡ
[to]-whom
θελει
is-choosing
γαμηθηναι
to-be-married
μονον
only
εν
in
κυριω
master
40
μακαριωτερα
happier
δε
yet
εστιν
is
εαν
if-ever
οὑτως
likewise
μεινη
should-remain
κατα
down
την
the
εμην
I-my
γνωμην
opinion
δοκω
I-am-supposing
δε
yet
καγω
and-I
πνευμα
spirit
θεου
[of]-God
εχειν
to-have